Child Safety Tips

Bullying is a phenomenon that children often have to deal with and as parents it is up to you to help them cope and overcome the fear of bullies. Bullying is seen to occur in schools and colleges around the world and if not addressed and treated early, it can have devastating effects on your child's life. The child becomes weak and unable to stand up for himself in life.

Bullies are usually people who have deep insecurities and intimidate others to cope with insecurity. They look for weak people, attacking on them because it makes them feel strong and powerful. Usually soft spoken and small children become bullies than targets to attack.

Let us treat this topic systematically. What follows are a few pointers parents can follow to help solve the problem of bullying. Let's say your son, named Jack, bullying at school everyday and come home sad and weeping, lamenting that he still does not like children who bully him. Here's what you can do:

1) ask the names Jack bullies call. Then try to explain to him that the insults can not really hurt him. There is an excellent video on this topic: There once was a sage who lived in a hermitage in a forest with his followers. One day, when he gave a sermon explaining the ancient scriptures, a lady came in the sermon and began abusing the old wise man accused of being a fake. In the old man just kept silent and calm, with a faint smile gracing his face. The lady and the furious disciples asked why the wise did not tell the lady. The sage told them she had given her gifts, and as he did not like the gifts, he did not take donations. The gifts were his harsh words. The wise man has remained calm and balance to resume his sermon as if nothing had happened. You can tell Jack that he did not accept the gift of bullying.

2) Explain what happens, they blame him because he reacts when he cries. And they feel good and continue.

3) The theory of the magnet. Likes attract. Opposed away. If he were to become strong and confident like them, they will no longer bother him.

4) Make a table set up smiley when he does not react. Reward him for that.

5) Discuss with him how he overcame bullying. Tell him you're proud of him.

6) Ask him how long it takes the bullies find new prey.

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